Adventures in Motherhood!

2012-01-02T16:35:00.001-08:00

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She's a singing star!

2011-04-30T11:04:00.000-07:00

My New Fav!

2011-03-31T10:14:00.000-07:00

I absolutely love that Dole now has fruit cups with a 100% Juice option. I never was a fan of them much before and now I know why. Fruit in syrup is simply disgusting! I now like fruit cups and so does my family! And I can give them to Keeley guilt free knowing that I have given her the healthier option that fits my family lifestyle (I just can't get the balance right, fresh fruit either gets eaten too fast or goes bad).

what else do I need.....

2011-03-28T10:59:00.000-07:00

to prove that the Packers are the greatest team on earth! They even have their own broadway show! Awesome!

One More :D

2011-03-25T07:53:00.001-07:00

Guilt Free Coffee!

2011-03-24T09:32:00.000-07:00

To all those coffee lovers out there, drink up! *with moderation of course ;) * Drinking coffee has been linked to lower rates of stroke, Type 2 diabetes, parkinsons....and if you add a source of calcium, ahem, milk (sorry non dairy creamer doesn't cut it) then you don't have to worry about the calcium loss associated with coffee because you put it back! And it is the same with decaf! Most exciting news I've heard all day! And yes I am drinking my coffee as I post this!

You know what this means?

2011-03-19T09:04:00.001-07:00

That's right, I am offically a LPN! Whoo hoo!

Oh! ::sigh::

2011-03-16T11:55:00.000-07:00

Nope not Catholic!

2011-03-14T11:17:00.001-07:00

I know many are wondering why I am participating in Lent. Well it is really simple: For Christ. The reason I am doing this during "Lent" is because it is the time leading up to the biggest thing Jesus gave up for us, his life!

"Lent is the season for the experience of giving your life over - in each moment, bodily, deliberately, to Christ and to what the Spirit is showing you. God wants you to surrender yourself, and let the Spirit work in you. In Lent, we take responsibility for our acts and thoughts, and treat certain of those as the killers they are. Lent is self-discovery of the parts of ourselves we don't want to discover, through prayer, fasting, and other disciplines. It is the opening up, the turning over to God, the repenting of our sins, the turning away from that which does not please God. Yet there is just a glimpse of Easter through the heavy clouds of Good Friday - that Christ has taken the burden, and you don't have to carry it anymore."~http://www.spirithome.com/lent.html#lent

So I have given up Facebook, quite possibly the number one thing that distracts me from focusing on my relationship with Christ.

To the earth below ...

2010-12-22T10:36:00.000-08:00

Could've come like a mighty storm
With all the strength of a hurricane
You could've come like a forest fire
With the power of Heaven in Your flame

But You came like a winter snow
Quiet and soft and slow
Falling from the sky in the night
To the earth below

You could've swept in like a tidal wave
Or an ocean to ravish our hearts
You could have come through like a roaring flood
To wipe away the things we've scarred

But You came like a winter snow, yes, You did
You were quiet, You were soft and slow
Falling from the sky in the night
To the earth below

Ooh no, Your voice wasn't in a bush burning
No, Your voice wasn't in a rushing wind
It was still, it was small, it was hidden

Oh, You came like a winter snow
Quiet and soft and slow
Falling from the sky in the night
To the earth below

Falling, oh yeah, to the earth below
You came falling from the sky in the night
To the earth below

Thank you Veterans!

2010-11-11T08:18:00.000-08:00

IT IS THE SOLDIER

It is the Soldier, not the minister
Who has given us freedom of religion.

It is the Soldier, not the reporter
Who has given us freedom of the press.

It is the Soldier, not the poet
Who has given us freedom of speech.

It is the Soldier, not the campus organizer
Who has given us freedom to protest.

It is the Soldier, not the lawyer
Who has given us the right to a fair trial.

It is the Soldier, not the politician
Who has given us the right to vote.

It is the Soldier who salutes the flag,
Who serves beneath the flag,
And whose coffin is draped by the flag,
Who allows the protester to burn the flag.

AMEN!

Dancing in the Minefields!

2010-09-18T17:53:00.000-07:00

Well I was 19 you were 21
The year we got engaged
Everyone said we were much to young
But we did it anyway
We got the rings for 40 each from a pawnshop down the road
We said our vows and took the leap now 15 years ago

We went dancing in the minefields
We went sailing in the storm
And it was harder than we dreamed
But I believe that’s what the promise was for

Well ‘I do’ are the two most famous last words
The beginning of the end
But to lose your life for another I’ve heard is a good place to begin
Cause the only way to find your life is to lay your own life down
And I believe it’s an easy price for the life that we have found

And we’re dancing in the minefields
We’re went sailing in the storm
And it was harder than we dreamed
But I believe that’s what the promise was for
That’s what the promise is for

So when I lose my way, find me
When I lose loves chains, bind me
At the end of all my faith
to the end of all my days
when I forget my name, remind me

Cause we bear the light of the son of man
So there’s nothing left to fear
So I’ll walk with you in the shadow lands
Till the shadows disappear
Cause he promised not to leave us
And his promises are true
So in the face of this chaos baby
I can dance with you

So lets go dancing in the minefields
Lets go sailing in the storms
Oh lets go dancing in the minefields
And kicking down the doors
Oh lets go dancing in the minefields
And sailing in the storms
Oh this is harder than we dreamed
But I believe that’s what the promise if for
That’s what the promise is for

I heard this song when it was first released, and I just love it! The words ring amazingly true about marriage. Dancing in the minefields. That is a perfect depiction of how hard a marriage is, how much work it takes to succeed. Having been able to walk along side some who have had struggles in their marriage, some quite recently, this song totally speaks to me. I have seen marriages fail, and I have been privileged to see some work together to succeed! Each experience has made me stronger my belief of the sanctity of marriage. Most know that I believe that all marriages can be saved. No matter how dire the situation may seem, I believe that there is no reason for anyone to divorce. I know some might disagree with me, but the bible also supports that. God says "I Hate Divorce" in Malachi 2:16. Yes, marriage is hard work and marriage is not perfect. But with hard work on both sides (some work harder than others) any marriage can prevail. Especially when we rely on God! I truly believe that with all my heart!

The House That Built Me

2010-09-11T16:25:00.000-07:00

This is the house that I grew up in. My mom and uncle grew up there too. A couple of years ago my grandparents sold it to my uncle, and when the economy fell, the prison he worked at closed and he was transferred. Therefor it is now for sale. For me it is such a bittersweet thing. This is the house where all my moral grounding began. My grandparents taught me so much about life, love, and responsibility in that house. I mowed that yard every summer. I shoveled the walk and stacked wood in the basement every winter. I had slumber parties in that front bedroom where we watched Armageddon and ate whole cheesecakes. I came down the stairs in each prom dress feeling like a princess. I got caught having an impromptu beer party when my grandparents were out of town. I had my graduation party in that house. So many memories, and eventually it will be some other family making memories in that house.

1st haircut!

2010-07-18T15:47:00.000-07:00

Keeley's first haircut! I just wanted to even it out, looks super cute!

On second thought....

2010-04-09T16:55:00.000-07:00

Ok since I have this blog stalker, and I am way too busy to manually add everyone, I have decided to keep this blog public. So go ahead and read away crazy blog stalker!

Blog stalker!

2010-02-11T13:08:00.000-08:00

Seems that I have a blog stalker. Kinda ironic being that I haven't posted in a while. So in turn I am setting my blog to private and only those that I invite can view my blog. If you would like to be one of those people and you have not recived an invite already send me your email!

Happy Veterans Day!

2009-11-11T07:43:00.000-08:00

As I did last year, I am sharing my favorite poem for Veterans Day! Thank you all who have made the ultimate sacrifice so that I may post this here today!

IT IS THE SOLDIER

It is the Soldier, not the minister

Who has given us freedom of religion.

It is the Soldier, not the reporter

Who has given us freedom of the press.

It is the Soldier, not the poet

Who has given us freedom of speech.

It is the Soldier, not the campus organizer

Who has given us freedom to protest.

It is the Soldier, not the lawyer

Who has given us the right to a fair trial.

It is the Soldier, not the politician

Who has given us the right to vote.

It is the Soldier who salutes the flag,

Who serves beneath the flag,

And whose coffin is draped by the flag,

Who allows the protester to burn the flag.

AMEN!

Giveaway

2009-11-03T17:28:00.000-08:00

My good friend Keren is giving away a set of bibs and a beautiful nursing cover to two lucky people. She does a wonderful job, and really has an eye for fabrics. See her blog {The Fenton Four} Good Luck!

Brownie Face

2009-10-28T22:12:00.001-07:00

Keeley helped me make brownies for the Midwive's Back Sale at work. She thought licking the spoon was the best part! Only problem is that Keeley seems to have an allergy to eggs so she broke out around her mouth :( We had great fun though!!

Lil Pumpkin's

2009-10-19T00:34:00.001-07:00

Keeley and her Cousin Chloe went to the Pumpkin Patch together today, it was Keeley's (and mommy's) first time. We had great fun! I love that they are so close in age and can share all these moments! And they so love each other! I can't wait for the many more good times to come!

Moving on to greener pastures!

2009-10-02T22:08:00.000-07:00

I finally got my letter of acceptance into Bates Technicl College's LPN program today. It has been a long 3 year wait, along with a "mistake" -as the school puts it. I will start in Feburary and hopefully will graduate by December 2010. That will mean a bright new start for me in 2011!

Not much of an update, but an update non-the-less!

2009-09-15T20:32:00.001-07:00

So... I know it has been MONTHS since I updated my blog. I started several, but never had the time to finish them. I am not going to go back and try to remember every little detail of my life, pretty much I am gonna give a quick update on Keeley.

On August 15th Keeley turned 9 months old. She was 20.5 lbs and 29 inches long. That was 90th percentile for height and 75th percentile for weight, a slight slow down. To celebrate we took her and her Cousin Chloe to the Point Defiance Zoo. Chloe turned 1 just one week after (which we were at the church camp out so we missed the party) so the timing worked out to be a birthday gift too! The zoo was such fun!!

Today Keeley turned 10 months, just two more months until she is a year old! Oh my. She crawls like a champ, and is working real hard on standing. She is also trying to say "Stop", guess I'll have to not say that anymore. Yesterday she showed me that she could "brush" her hair, I am so proud!! How many 10 month old's brush their own hair??

A world full of "V"s!

2009-06-07T11:23:00.000-07:00

Vitamins. So I went to the Dr's on Friday to get the results of some tests I had done. For those who don't know I have been having extreme fatigue, in which I feel that I will fall asleep at any moment including while I drive. Seems I have a Vitamin D deficiency. Vitamin D deficiency can cause muscle pain, low energy and fatigue, mood swings, and several others symptoms and diseases I am not experiencing. Researching it has been really scary for me since some of the diseases associated with it run in my family. So I will be taking a supplement and hopefully I will start feeling better!
Vomitting. Yesterday morning poor lil Keeley woke up vomiting. She would throw up everything she ate and around noon had some diarrhea. Eventually she took a couple ounces here and there along with some Pedialite. She was such a trooper, despite being sick and tired she was playing and talking up a storm. She is doing much better this morning!

The beutiful weather!

2009-05-23T13:29:00.000-07:00

Yesterday my friend Mandi and I walked the Orting Trail from the McMillin Trailhead down to the McDonalds and back. Pushing strollers in the hot sun, it took us 3hrs! It was so nice to get out and enjoy the sun and walk with a good friend!

A praise for Carenet!!

2009-05-23T13:16:00.000-07:00

This article was in the Carenet newsletter. It talks about Washington's Laws on teaching sex education and what Carenet has done to make sure that abstinence is not excluded. Praise the Lord!!

Smart Love and Smart Home:
Healthy relationships for youth and families.

“Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.”
Proverbs 22:6

Last September the Washington State Healthy Youth Act (HYA) was enacted and many Abstinence‐ Until‐Marriage sexual health and relationship programs were no longer allowed to present in the public schools. The State appointed two people, one from the Department of Health (DOH) and one from the Office of the Superintendent of Public Instruction (OSPI) to critique all of the sex education programs and judge, using a rubric, which ones were acceptable. Of the 60 abstinence‐until‐marriage programs that went through that particular process for being allowed in the schools, zero passed. The reasons given were along the lines of too much ideology and not enough medical and scientific accuracy. Programs that passed do not have marriage mentioned in the curriculum, and the definition of abstinence is greatly distorted – meaning, waiting two weeks to have sex is being abstinent. Programs accepted into the schools mention birth control methods, but do not mention the risks of using these methods or which methods are ineffective. Having observed the outcome of true sexual health programs that are based on abstinence‐until‐marriage in the DOH/ OSPI process, we decided to follow another option stated in the HYA law instead of risking being denied access to the many schools that we currently give presentations. We enlisted the help of 5 physicians in the Seattle Tacoma area, four OB/GYNs and one Family Practice physician to review the curriculum that we use. Prior to the review, we updated the curriculum and used statistics and information that is verified by research in compliance with scientific methods, is published in peer reviewed journals and is recognized as accurate by objective professional organizations and agencies with expertise in the field of sexual health, including the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, the Washington State Department of Health and the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The 5 physicians each reviewed the curriculum and information sightings and wrote letters of approval for our use. They each also signed an affidavit as to the accuracy, medically and scientifically, of the curriculum. As of April 1, 2009 we are once again able to offer Smart Love in the schools and have had several schools sign up for the spring semester presentations. One other aspect of this process that has made us aware of a great need is that parents are unaware of what is being taught for sex education in the schools. It has been mentioned in articles previously, but deserves to be mentioned again; parents have to voice their concern for the comprehensive sex education curriculum that many schools are now presenting to their children that encourages risky behavior and does not give complete information about the ineffectiveness of some methods of birth control in preventing STDs.
Care Net of Pierce County is in the process of developing a new curriculum to be shared with parents in order to educate and assist them in speaking to their children about sexual relationships and health. Our Smart Love/Smart Home staff was selected to attend a special training in Dallas, Texas at the end of last month sponsored by World Vision and the Medical Institute of Sexual Health. The training workshop was titled, Building Family Connections and has 10 modules for teaching parents. The modules are:
1. Great Parenting 2. Effective Communication 3. Decision Making Process 4. Adolescent Development 5. Teen age Pregnancy 6.Contraception 7. STI‐ HIV/Aids 8.Healthy & Unhealthy Relationships 9. Abstinence 10. Tough Questions Kids Ask.
After presenting this material to our volunteers and staff, our smart.home staff will revise the modules to include the Biblical background and support or the topics and then be able to offer this program as Smart Home to parents throughout our area. This can be offered in Sunday school, small groups, home groups, or community group settings. We are pleased to be able to expand our scope of programming for families utilizing abstinence and marriage as God’s plan for sexual health and purity.

6 months!

2009-05-20T10:38:00.001-07:00

So last Friday my baby turned 6 months. Monday she went in for her 6 month checkup. She weighs 17 lbs 12 oz and is 27 inches long (only 2 inches until she needs a new car seat!). That's in the 90th percentile for both! She is such a chunk! I just love all her rolls!! She now rolls from front to back and back to front. She is constantly kicking her legs to try to get whatever has caught her eyes, usually the cat! Sometimes she pushes herself backwards! She eats cereal on a regular bases and we are introducing something new every week. She is up to pears and squash. Next I think we will try green beans! She is fascinated with books and will do all in her power to take it away from you and chew on it. She even tries to open them now. I wish i had a picture to post but they are all on the camera still. Soon hopefully!!

She did it!!

2009-05-08T06:29:00.000-07:00

She finally rolled over!! In fact every time I put her on her tummy she would roll over. My baby is getting to be such a big girl!

Bath Time Fun!!

2009-05-06T06:30:00.000-07:00

So Thankful!

2009-05-01T06:17:00.000-07:00

We are so thankful that our friend Michelle is going to watch Keeley until September!! It really helps us out a lot and Keeley get the exposure to other kids which she needs!! We are so grateful such good friends!

They are so cute together!

Needed.....

2009-04-27T17:50:00.000-07:00

We are still contemplating our options for child care for Keeley. We have interviewed a couple people, actually only two, but we really feel that we need more comparison. So here is what we are looking for , our wish list so to say.

We really need someone to start May 4th. And someone to take on the 29th and 30th of April.

We really need some one who will be available between 7-730 in the morning and 5-530 in the afternoon mon thru friday with most fridays off. the times will very depending upon location.

We can only afford $400 per month.

We perfer in home care, ours or yours.

We really want Keeley to be exposed to other children, but perefably no more than 4 (3 +Keeley).

Any stay at home mom who could use a little bit of extra income would be great!

If you or someone you are willing to vouch for are interested, I can be reached at 253-273-9793.

If you cannot, please pray that we will find someone!

My little Fan!!

2009-04-27T04:04:00.000-07:00

My friend Keren did these "twilight" themed photos for me of Keeley. They are just so great! Love them!!

5 monthes and 1week!

2009-04-23T10:55:00.000-07:00

So I know this post is a little old but Keeley turned 5 monthes on April 15th! She is getting to be such a big girl! She talks up a storm and I think some is singing! She loves being sang to especially her ABC's which I sign to her, and Itsy Bitsy Spider. She is in love with touching everything. Shes love to grab on to our faces and tries to rip them off! She roles over on to her side from her back, but I have yet to get her to roll over from her tummy (she is almost there!) She no longer sleeps with the positioner on her wedge and often will sleep on her side (and talks in her sleep!) She is so much fun and loves to smile! Here are some pics from her Easter shots!

Pleated Petal Tank ANTHROPOLIFICATION GIVEAWAY!!!!

2009-04-14T21:51:00.000-07:00

Pleated Petal Tank ANTHROPOLIFICATION GIVEAWAY!!!!

Oh so cute!!!

Why we celebrate Easter!

2009-04-12T06:33:00.000-07:00

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead!

1 Peter 1:3

After the Sabbath, at dawn on the first day of the week, Mary Magdalene and the other Mary went to look at the tomb. There was a violent earthquake, for an angel of the Lord came down from heaven and, going to the tomb, rolled back the stone and sat on it. His appearance was like lightning, and his clothes were white as snow. The guards were so afraid of him that they shook and became like dead men.

The angel said to the women, "Do not be afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. He is not here; he has risen, just as he said. Come and see the place where he lay. Then go quickly and tell his disciples: 'He has risen from the dead and is going ahead of you into Galilee. There you will see him.' Now I have told you."

Matthew 28:1-10

Wow...5 years!!

2009-04-11T04:51:00.000-07:00

Cris and I celebrated 5 years of marriage yesterday! We went out for sushi, oh so nummy nummy! We had a great time!

Cris: Thank you for putting up with me these last 5 years.

Jess: Your welcome. It wasn't easy.

Cris: ::laughs:: oh thanks.

Jess: And your welcome for the best years of your life!

Oh yes, I am funny!

Grosgrain: Born 2 Impress Guest GIVEAWAY!!!!

2009-04-11T04:49:00.000-07:00

Grosgrain: Born 2 Impress Guest GIVEAWAY!!!!

Oh so super cute!!

Much needed update!

2009-04-03T12:21:00.000-07:00

Sorry I haven't posted anything in a while, so much has been going on.

Keeley had her 4 month well child check up on Thursday. She was 15 lbs and 25 inches. That is 75% in both categories.

Mollie came to visit last week. We had a great time. We did the touristy thing and went to the waterfront/Point Defiance Park, took a day trip to the ocean, and went to Seattle. We did the Seattle Underground tour for the first time, and it is so awesome! Seattle has a great and rich history. Then we went to Ivor's on the wharf to eat. Very Yummy! We had a great time, I miss her so much. I kept trying to talk her into moving here. But things are not always the way I want them to be :(

Last Friday Cris was laid off from his job (for those of you who don't read Sam's blog). He'll be getting unemployment, that will help us pay our house payment. And my job will pay for all the other expenses. Then we have some saving we can use if we need to, so we will be ok for a while. We just won't be able to do all the fun stuff. Cris is in the union so we get to keep the medical until May 31st . That'll help quite a bit too. But he is actively seeking a job that will pay about the same and we of course hope to get something before all our resources are exhausted. So we ask that you pray for us in that.

Finally, our dear nanny Sammy will be leaving us at the end of April. She will be going to Ireland to vacation with Tom, then straight to her Annual Training , and then to California to do her language training. So we will be looking for child care. If you know anybody who could use a little extra income, let me know. We prefer in home (stay at home moms are great!) and someone we know, but we are open to other options.

We just ask that you keep us in your prayers and hearts. We know that God's will is perfect and he will provide what we need.

My baby is....

2009-03-17T21:20:00.000-07:00

4 months old!! I apologize, this is a few days late (her "month" day was on Sunday, the 15th!). I don't have weight or height yet as I have put off her appointment till the 26th so that I could go since I don't get the opportunity often. Some news is: she has tried rice cereal (didn't eat much but didn't spit it out either), she is trying to roll over, she loves itsy bitsy spider, loves to chew on her toys, and loves her bunny blanket her aunt Apryl got her. She has become a little stranger shy but loves being around other children. I will give a better update (with pics) after her appointment.

Sleeping on her side when mama wasn't looking!

SparkPeople!!

2009-03-13T21:10:00.000-07:00

SparkPeople is a great website to help you custom tailor a diet and excerise plan! It is so helpful! I highly recomend it for everyone, even if you don't want to lose weight. Its a great way to track your nutrients! Oh and best of all: its free!! If you sign up please be sure to put my ID (angelover4you) as who referred you! If you need any help just let me know!

Its all gone!!

2009-03-11T18:07:00.000-07:00

So today I went and cut off all my hair! It was getting pretty snarly and Keeley really liked pulling on it. I thought that it was a good time to do so. Here are some pics of my new hair.

A peek at my life!

2009-03-07T15:11:00.000-08:00

Jessica-::brushing her teeth:: "Whats wrong with this picture?" ::points at unflushed toilet::

Cris- "Thats a toilet not a pisser."

Jessica- ::pulls tooth brush out of her mouth:: "I said picture, not pisser."

Cris- "Semantics." ::flushes toilet::

Yes its really like that!

Giveaways...yes me too...

2009-03-04T06:03:00.000-08:00

Born 2 Impress

Sunday Laundry Shirt Dress

Anthropoli-fication Boyer Cream Cardi

Blushing Buttercream Pettiskirt

Deprivation, Birthday, and Laughs!

2009-03-03T21:26:00.000-08:00

So in the spirit of Lent, I have decided to give up something I find I constantly obsess over. Television. In particular: Television Shows. I pretty much consider my day in relation to what shows I watch and what time they come on. I am totally obsessed!! Now I am struggling to not turn the channel from the news, which is allowed along with movies, or to not turn the TV on. Its been hard, but I have not watched a single television show since Wednesday. Not even House... I know! I am impressed too! So wish me luck as I am counting the days until I am free to watch my precious House once more.

On to much more interesting things. My birthday was last Thursday. I turned the big 27! The day was good, I got a gift from a co-worker: A Team Edward T-shirt (totally rocks), a sign for my house decor that says blessings, and a dress for Keeley ( she had to, she is a mommy to a boy!). Cris then surprised me with a carrot cake (my fav!) and a balloon to work. Since I am getting plane tickets to go see my grandparents for a combo birthday/Christmas gift, I thought that was it. Nope. Saturday night, since Cris works nights during the week, he surprised me by having Ann babysit and taking me to the water front (another fav) for a walk. We then stopped for a drink at Katie Downs where Cris learned I have a fear of balconies (don't ask). On the way "home" Cris pulls up to a building and starts to look for a parking spot. He TOTALLY surprised me with dinner at the Melting Pot!! I was soo excited! I have been dying to try it for sooo long!! The food was soo yummy! I loved every minute of it. So ya, my husband rocks!!

Finally, the last new thing I have to share with you all is that Sunday night Keeley laughed at me! A real honest-to-God laugh!! I was so surprised. I was just holding her in my lap making kissy faces at her and she must have thought it soo funny. I of course starting laughing, which made her laugh harder. I laughed so hard I couldn't breath...it was so stinkin' cute!! Her laugh was a series of little grunts accompanied by squeals and gurgles all while her mouth was wide open in a smile. She was soooo cute!! I really wish we could have gotten it on camera, but its a memory I will never forget!

Fun Giveaway

2009-02-25T20:28:00.000-08:00

Do you enjoy making cupcakes? There is an amazing giveaway at Southern Plate They are giving away a complete cupcake kit. It includes a cupcake stand, cupcake boxes, cupcake papers and sprinkles. Head on over there to enter the giveaway. You can also earn additional entries by blogging or tweeting about it.

3 Month Photos

2009-02-20T21:59:00.000-08:00

** For those who need to know, these were taken at the JC Penny's at South Hill Mall **

Just Between Friends

2009-02-19T19:28:00.000-08:00

So I haven't been to one yet but I have heard tons of good things about it. This year there will be one in Puyallup. If its your first time you can sign up to get in free, if your a first time parent you can get in early! I am super excited to go!

Click Here

Misadventures in Motherhood!

2009-02-19T19:03:00.001-08:00

So I sat down to clip Keeley's nails this weekend (I am sure most of you know where this is going), and usually she is very still and quite. I have clipped her nails probably 6-7 times since she was born and have never had a problem. So Sunday night I got into our usual clipping position (on her back on my lap) and started clipping. I was about to finish her right hand by doing her thumb when she must have gotten tired of my messing with her. Just as I was about to clip she jerked her thumb and I clipped too far into the quick. My poor baby!! Her thumb started to bleed and she started to cry.

She is such a trooper though! She only cried for a few seconds and then she was smiling at us. How forgiving she is!! I of course felt horrible and couldn't finish the left hand. I finally got enough courage to try again yesterday. All went well even though it took twice as long as I was extra careful and slow. I never want my baby to hurt again!!!

Yesterday....

2009-02-16T12:52:00.000-08:00

My baby turned THREE MONTHES OLD!! She is getting so big - @ 14 lbs. She sleeps from about 9 to about 9. She loves to talk up a storm! And she loves getting kisses! Oh if only she could stay so cute and small!!!

Weight Loss

2009-02-16T12:35:00.000-08:00

My Weight Chart:

This is my weight loss chart. I am going to be using this to track my weight loss instead of a food/excerise journal since journals are not my forte *the joys of having younger brothers* . I started on January 12th, the day I went back to work. Right now my goal is 140, my pre prego weight. But after that I will be aiming for 130, thats 5 lbs over my army weight. We'll see were I go from there. Wish me luck!!

Oh What A Good Morning!!

2009-02-13T22:15:00.000-08:00

This is the face I see every morning, Oh how lucky is me!

25 things....finally

2009-01-31T17:08:00.000-08:00

So I have been taggd to blog 25 random things about myself... oh my!

1) I only use white plastic hangers, I can't stand them not to match.

2) I can, and often do, eat a can of cranberry sauce as a meal.

3) I am obsessed with reading the Twilight series...bring on book 3 baby!!

4) I am suprised that I actually like the smell of my baby's breath, someone told me that it was their favorite thing and I thought that it was gross...joke's on me!

5) I hate to shovel snow...or stack wood.

6) I have an elaborate plan of what I would do if I won the lottery.... but I never buy a ticket.

7) I want to weigh 125 again.

8) I still think dating someone over 30 is gross and my husband is almost 29!

9) I think bushy eyebrows are gross.

10) I once lived 6 blocks from where Jeffery Dahmer lived and shopped in the same mall he stalked his victims.

11) I like the taste of beer.

12) My dad had a cat named Bitch, but changed it to Bastion when I started to talk.

13) I was accepted to the Univerity of Hawaii, but chose Marquette instead...it's in Milwuakee enough said.

14) I took a salsa lesson once and yelled " I don't have any hips!" at the teacher who insisted I needed to move my hips.

15) I was a mechanic in the Army.

16) I have been working on a nursing degree for 8 years.

17) I am terrified of my grandpa passing away.

18) I love to cook, but not for myself.

19) I did not like being pregnant.

20) I've read the same book over a hundred times.

21) I love happy endings, I think thats why I like most horror movies-it can only get better.

22) I'd still sleep with my teddy if my husband would let me.

23) I see the book I read as if they are movies playing in my head. I often get books and movies mixed up because of it.

24) I would lock my keys in the car all the time untill my loving husband got me a car with a key pad.

25) I really dont like it when people pick their noses.

Several Things

2009-01-19T17:33:00.000-08:00

First I must say thank you to Pastor Ryan for giving us such a wonderful sermon on Sancity of Life Sunday! I really appreciated the heart you have for the unborn! *although I wasn't mentioned in relation to Carenet :( ... j/k *

Second I have to give my dear friend Becky a shout out for her birthday :

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BECKY!! I LOVE YOU!!

And finally I leave you with more pics of Keeley!

* Me and my daddy lounging!

* New Family Favorite... yep that's me!

*My Favorite things!

* I love my auntie!!

* Yes they do!

2 month update

2009-01-15T20:20:00.000-08:00

Keeley went to her 2 month appointment today. She weighed 11 lbs 5 oz and was 22 3/4 inches long. She was in the 75th percentile for both! She got her shots too. Daddy said she did such a good job. She only cried a little. Daddy watched for the first one, but found out its best to not look. I sure do wish I could have been there!

Great Website

2009-01-10T10:59:00.000-08:00

E-Water: Christian Flashes and E-cards

Oh so behind!

2009-01-09T21:51:00.000-08:00

I am so behind on my blog. I just realized I never did a birth story, thanksgiving, or christmas. I am trying to get the laptop to connect to the wireless so I can carry it around with me. Hopefully I will be able to blog more often! SO for now I will leave you with just a few photos!

*Me and my daddy!

*Taking a bath!

* I am a couch potato!

*Working up a smile!

* The beginning of a smile

*The end of a smile

A Different Christmas Poem

2008-12-24T20:18:00.000-08:00

The embers glowed softly, and in their dim light,

I gazed round the room and I cherished the sight.

My wife was asleep, her head on my chest,

My daughter beside me, angelic in rest.

Outside the snow fell, a blanket of white,

Transforming the yard to a winter delight.

The sparkling lights in the tree I believe,

Completed the magic that was Christmas Eve.

My eyelids were heavy, my breathing was deep,

Secure and surrounded by love I would sleep.

In perfect contentment, or so it would seem,

So I slumbered, perhaps I started to dream.

The sound wasn't loud, and it wasn't too near,

But I opened my eyes when it tickled my ear.

Perhaps just a cough, I didn't quite know,

Then the Sure sound of footsteps outside in the snow.

My soul gave a tremble, I struggled to hear,

And I crept to the door just to see who was near.

Standing out in the cold and the dark of the night,

A lone figure stood, his face weary and tight.

A soldier, I puzzled, some twenty years old,

Perhaps a Marine, huddled here in the cold.

Alone in the dark, he looked up and smiled,

Standing watch over me, and my wife and my child.

"What are you doing?" I asked without fear,

"Come in this moment, it's freezing out here!

Put down your pack, brush the snow from your sleeve,

You should be at home on a cold Christmas Eve!"

For barely a moment I saw his eyes shift,

Away from the cold and the snow blown in drifts.

To the window that danced with a warm fire's light

Then he sighed and he said "Its really all right,

I'm out here by choice. I'm here every night."

"It's my duty to stand at the front of the line,

That separates you from the darkest of times.

No one had to ask or beg or implore me,

I'm proud to stand here like my fathers before me.

My Gramps died at 'Pearl on a day in December,"

Then he sighed, "That's a Christmas 'Gram always remembers."

My dad stood his watch in the jungles of 'Nam',

And now it is my turn and so, here I am.

I've not seen my own son in more than a while,

But my wife sends me pictures, he's sure got her smile.

Then he bent and he carefully pulled from his bag,

The red, white, and blue... An American flag.

I can live through the cold and the being alone,

Away from my family, my house and my home.

I can stand at my post through the rain and the sleet,

I can sleep in a foxhole with little to eat.

I can carry the weight of killing another,

Or lay down my life with my sister and brother..

Who stand at the front against any and all,

To ensure for all time th at this flag will not fall."

"So go back inside," he said, "harbor no fright,

Your family is waiting and I'll be all right."

"But isn't there something I can do, at the least,

"Give you money," I asked, "or prepare you a feast?

It seems all too little for all that you've done,

For being away from your wife and your son."

Then his eye welled a tear that held no regret,

"Just tell us you love us, and never forget.

To fight for our rights back at home while we're gone,

To stand your own watch, no matter how long.

For when we come home, either standing or dead,

To know you remember we fought and we bled.

Is payment enough, and with that we will trust,

That we mattered to you as you mattered to us."

Snow angel!

2008-12-22T13:10:00.000-08:00

Cris' friend Jeremy gave us this adorable snow outfit so we just had to take her out in the snow! The snow flakes were landing on her face and they were just so perfectly formed! Beautiful snowflakes for my beautiful girl. However they melted before we could try to take pictures of them.

Oh my goodness....

2008-12-16T19:43:00.000-08:00

my baby is one month old already!! I can't believe it! It seems like only yesterday we were welcoming her into this world. And now she is already 9 lbs 3 oz and half an inch taller...thats 50th percentile for both. She sleeps well through the night, 3-4 hour streches, and is starting to eat 4 oz at a time. She is still in some NB clothes but is growing out of them one by one. She still has her long dark hair but I can tell it is starting to get lighter. Her eyes are getting lighter but are still blue, they might stay that way... we'll see. Next milestone: Smiling.

Keeley's 1 week photo

1 month ...professional ones to follow!

tag...

2008-12-12T22:12:00.000-08:00

Here's how it works: Bold all the things that you have done in your life.1. Started your own blog 2. Slept under the stars 3. Played in a band 4. Visited Hawaii 5. Watched a meteor shower 6. Given more than you can afford to charity 7. Been to Disneyland 8. Climbed a mountain 9. Held a praying mantis 10. Sang a solo 11. Bungee jumped 12. Visited Paris 13. Watched a lightning storm at sea 14. Taught yourself an art from scratch 15. Adopted a child 16. Had food poisoning 17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty 18. Grown your own vegetables 19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France 20. Slept on an overnight train 21. Had a pillow fight 22. Hitch hiked 23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill 24. Built a snow fort 25. Held a lamb 26. Gone skinny dipping 27. Run a Marathon 28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice 29. Seen a total eclipse 30. Watched a sunrise or sunset 31. Hit a home run 32. Been on a cruise 33. Seen Niagara Falls in person 34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors 35. Seen an Amish community 36. Taught yourself a new language 37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied 38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person 39. Gone rock climbing 40. Seen Michelangelo’s David 41. Sung karaoke 42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt 43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant 44. Visited Africa 45. Walked on a beach by moonlight 46. Been transported in an ambulance 47. Had your portrait painted 48. Gone deep sea fishing- 49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person 50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris 51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling 52. Kissed in the rain 53. Played in the mud 54. Gone to a drive-in theater 55. Been in a movie- 56. Visited the Great Wall of China 57. Started a business 58. Taken a martial arts class 59. Visited Russia 60. Served at a soup kitchen 61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies 62. Gone whale watching 63. Got flowers for no reason 64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma 65. Gone sky diving 66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp 67. Bounced a check 68. Flown in a helicopter 69. Saved a favorite childhood toy 70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial 71. Eaten Caviar 72. Pieced a quilt 73. Stood in Times Square 74. Toured the Everglades 75. Been fired from a job 76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London 77. Broken a bone 78. Been on a speeding motorcycle 79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person 80. Published a book 81. Visited the Vatican 82. Bought a brand new car 83. Walked in Jerusalem 84. Had your picture in the newspaper 85. Read the entire Bible 86. Visited the White House 87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating 88. Had chickenpox 89. Saved someone’s life 90. Sat on a jury 91. Met someone famous 92. Joined a book club 93. Lost a loved one 94. Had a baby 95. Seen the Alamo in person 96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake(not swam,seen,it stinks!)97. Been involved in a law suit 98. Owned a cell phone 99. Been stung by a bee
Have you done most of these? 38 Anything that shocks you? nope

I am thankful for...

2008-11-27T14:32:00.000-08:00

My Salvation
My Daughter
My Husband
My Grandma
My Aunt Lila
My Family
Cris' Family
My Church Family
My Friends

Amen!

She's here!

2008-11-21T10:49:00.001-08:00

Here she is Miss Keeley Elizabeth!

She was born Saturday November 15th at 9:00 in the morning. Labor went very well, especially after the epidural! We were in labor for about 16 hrs and pushed for one. We were able to go home Sundy morning. We are all doing very well and I will update more later!

Photobook!

2008-11-13T21:05:00.000-08:00

This is the book I made with Oprah's giveaway! I only had to pay $7.57 for shipping! Soo cool!!

Giveaway

2008-11-12T22:23:00.000-08:00

Oprah is giving away free photobooks from snapfish. Go here!

*This offer is only good for one standard 20-page 8" x 11" custom-cover photo book per household. Coupon dispersal ends at 11:59 p.m. PST Friday, November 14, 2008. Free photo book must be redeemed by 11:59 p.m. PST Sunday, November 16, 2008. Offer does not include customary shipping and handling changes or additional pages. Offer applies only to mail-order delivery to U.S. customers. Offer cannot be combined with other coupon codes. Coupon cannot be resold or otherwise transferred and is void on the earlier of redemption or the offer end date.

Veteran's Day

2008-11-11T09:46:00.000-08:00

I have this on a shirt I got when I was in ROTC. It is by far my most favorite poem about our soldiers!! May we remember all who serve, have served, and have died protecting this country that we love! God Bless Them!

It's the Soldier, not the reporter,

who has given us freedom of the press.

It's the Soldier, not the poet,

who has given us freedom of speech.

It's the Soldier, not the campus organizer,

who has given us freedom to demonstrate.

It's the Soldier, not the lawyer,

who has given us the right to a fair trail.

And it's the Soldier who salutes the flag,

who serves the flag, whose coffin is draped in the flag,

that allows the protester to burn the flag.

~Father D. E. O'Brien

To you all, THANK YOU for the job you do or have done!

The long awaited update!

2008-11-09T06:29:00.000-08:00

Ok, I know it has been a while since I have updated you all on what has been happening in the good ol' life of Jess. I have just been getting everything ready for Keeley, washing clothes, blankets... being very nesty! Friday was my last day at work, and I am so glad to have the time off. I have had all my baby showers and everyone was very generous! Thank you all! The nursery is almost finished...I just love her bedding and curtains...its so cute! I'll post pics when I am totally finished...just a few things left to do. I have been having some contractions that have been more intense than the ones I've been having... we'll see what happens ;) I will be texting everyone on my phone with updates, so if you want want the latest info better make sure your in my phone! Well, that's about everything going on... I will try to keep you all updated!

Some pics from my family baby shower:

Prayer for our President Elect

2008-11-06T21:42:00.000-08:00

Thanks to my friend Becky, I have been following a Christian blog called Girl Talk. Today I read this and was very moved. It is exactly how I feel.

The following is an open letter from a girltalk reader to President-Elect Barack Obama. Her words eloquently capture our hearts on this historic day.

Dear President-Elect Obama,
Today I shed tears of joy, along with hundreds of thousands of Americans, for the great victory of your election. The significance of this moment cannot be overstated. Our African-American friends have been oppressed and cast aside for generations in this country of ours. Now, may the shame be completely wiped away and may the glory that this nation represents and strives for become a reality for more and more of our once silenced citizens.

I confess I did not cast my vote for you. Not because you failed to inspire me with your speeches, because you did. Not because you do not impress me with your leadership and vision, because you do. I cast my vote for another based upon my concern for another segment of our society which is downtrodden and cast aside, the weak, the innocent; the unborn.

Mr. President-Elect, I pray that your heart would be burdened as well to do all in your power to encourage the life that is even now forming in many to come to fruition, to share in this great moment in our nation’s history. We all know the times are difficult and no one will escape the trials at hand. Just as this is true, so is the gift and privilege we have to live it. May the millions of unborn get this chance as well. May the virtue of responsibility reign as mothers choose to carry the fruit of their wombs to term, to give the gift of life to another. I ask, President Obama, that you would prayerfully consider your pay grade since indeed it has now risen at this moment in our history. May you be the champion of all those who are weak yet share the same right to life.

May God bless you and your beautiful family.

Sincerely,
Margaret Buckley

Voter's Prayer...

2008-11-04T19:28:00.000-08:00

Lord you have had the plans of this world before we were ever breathed into exsistance! Today is all in your hands in the reguards of the new leader you have chosen for us! Keep us in your protection thru all that is to come! Lord you are the the only ruler of all! Protect those that are in our military fighting for our freedoms and our rights. Lord with all the things on the ballots I ask so boldly that you strike down all the wrong and grothesque causes!Let the world go to you for guidence in decisions that they need to make. Thank you Lord for your unfailing love. Bless this nation with all your love as well! Thank you Father! Amen

** Thanks Wendy!

McCain & Palin all the way!!

2008-11-03T06:55:00.000-08:00

**don't worry an update is coming soon!

My Nephew!

2008-10-18T09:16:00.000-07:00

Welcome to the family Calvin Joseph Montoya!!!

Baby Shower

2008-10-18T09:05:00.000-07:00

Here are some pics of the baby shower my wonderful and loving church threw for me. I am soo blessed to be surrounded by such a great church family!! Thank You guys for making this time so special for me!!

Fall

2008-10-10T19:23:00.001-07:00

Since Fall isn't my most favorite time of year, I thought I would list my 10 favorite things about it.

10. The decorating...Gourds, pumpkins, Indian corn, corn stalks...such fun
9. The church ladies retreat.
8. The smell of the spices used...Cinnamon, nutmeg, clove...mmmm
7. Family gatherings
6. Keeley will be born!
5. The laziness of the sun during the day.
4. The fresh, crisp cool air.
3. The smell of a pile of freshly raked leaves as I jump around in them!
2. The smell of the rain.
1. Cozying up under my mink blanket in front of the fireplace with a cup of hot cocoa or cider.

Tag I'm it...

2008-10-09T19:44:00.000-07:00

Since I have been tagged *thanks Keren* to tell 10 of Cris's favorite things I guess I might as well!

10. Being outdoors
9. His motorcycle
8. His mustang
7. His house
6. His guns
5. His Family
4. His Grandparents
3. Keeley!
2. Me!
1. God!

I'm Tagging:
Apryl
Ann
Sam
Amy
Mandi (yes I know Keren already did)
Anyone who reads my blog!!

Thanks Uncle Van and Aunt Tracie!!

2008-10-06T21:54:00.000-07:00

Cord Blood

2008-10-01T21:30:00.000-07:00

So today at work a lady came in to talk to us about Cord Blood Registry and research. Being a soon to be mommy, I was very interested in what I was hearing. Pretty much what happens is you either sign up to save your baby's cord blood from the umbilical cord for future, or donate it to a public bank. The blood is then separated and stem cell's isolated. These stem cells are stored until they are needed for extreme and unforeseen illnesses such as cerebral palsy, leukemia, type 1 diabetes and anemia. Then they are transplanted back into the person who is sick. Researches are unsure of exactly how they work but studies are showing great results especially in instances where the persons own blood was used. When donor blood is used, only 4 of the genetic markers have to match compared to 6 in the case of blood marrow transplants. What has pretty much sold me on it was that stem cells from cord blood are not the same as embryotic stem cell research, which I have moral issues with being that most embryos used are from abortions. Also it is good to know that embryotic stem cells have not been at all successful in research as they are not mature stem cells! The only thing that concerns me is the potential for cord blood stem cells to be used in cloning. Thankfully they are not being used for that at the moment. So in the light of all this, I am thinking of donating my baby's cord blood since I cannot afford to have it stored for me ( $1500-2000 + $125 a year). The only center in our area that accepts donations is the Puget Sound Blood Center. I will be praying about this decision.

Pregnancy Brain Incident

2008-09-29T06:44:00.000-07:00

On Saturday I experienced an incident that I can only blame on being pregnant. Getting ready to leave the house, and of course totally not paying attention to what I was doing, I went to close the garage door. Reaching up, I just grabbed on and pulled. This lead to me getting my fingers stuck between two panels of the door. Of course I was at home alone so there was no one to call out to. So I had to push the garage door back up using my knee to get my fingers out. My fingertips are still sore! I just can't believe I did that!

Another OB appointment behind me!

2008-09-27T09:59:00.001-07:00

So I had another OB appointment yesterday. Everything went great. Keeley is head down, low in my uterus (I was a little shocked when the midwife showed me how low). My uterus is measuring right on schedule. The midwife I saw (my midwife was delivering) told me I am doing great with my skin, no stretch marks at all! Woo hoo! She wanted to know what lotion I was using, and just all of you know for future reference I use Fruit of the Earth (FOTE) Cocoa and Shea Blended Body Lotion. It isn't organic but it is "100% American owned and operated" with no animal testing, and with the exception of ingredients grown outside of the US it is also made here. I really like it because it isn't greasy, it smells good, and it lasts on the skin a long time. And its not expensive! (I get it at Wal-Mart) I have used FOTE before and have always loved it! Highly Recommended! Check it out!

Just Thinking

2008-09-25T20:55:00.000-07:00

So since I haven't had to use birth control in a while ;) I have been thinking about what I am going to use after Keeley is born. Working in an OBGYN clinic I have all the information I need on any particular type of birth control. Because of my religious belief on when life begins (for me its conception) I like to know exactly how the birth control works. I know I don't want any type that prevents implantation of a fertilized egg which leaves out an IUD. Even the Mirena IUD which has a small amount of hormone isn't guaranteed to prevent conception. In fact when reading the info it says and I quote "Mirena may work in several ways. It may thicken your cervical mucus, thin the lining of your uterus, inhibit sperm movement and reduce sperm survival. Mirena may stop release of your egg from your ovary, but this is not the way it works in most cases." The combination of "thin the lining of your uterus" which translates to not allowing an fertilized egg implant, and "may stop release of your egg from your ovary, but this is not the way it works in most cases" concerns me when thinking about using it for myself. I absolutely do not want to take the risk of conceiving and it being my fault that the baby does not implant. Or of having a tubal pregnancy and putting myself at a serious health risk. So I started to investigate Implanon, an insert under the skin that releases hormones over a 3-year period. For a forgetful and lazy person such as I, it sounded wonderful. Until I discovered that it contains the same hormone as the Depo shot which has too many side effects for me to consider. So I am back to either using the nuva ring, which has a certain side effect on me that I don't like; or trying pills again. I know that I can't use any of the ortho products as all of them make me extremely nauseous. And as there is so many pills to look into, I just don't know where to start. So I am asking for any advise on any type of pill you may have tried. So let me know!

** All information quoted on the Mirena IUD was taken directly from the Patient Information Guide which can be found on the Mirena website, the Mirena brochures, and in the Mirena package.

Feeling Better

2008-09-13T13:42:00.000-07:00

Just to let everyone know: I went to the Dr's, got an antibiotic, and am now feeling better! I also had my OB appointment and my midwife confirmed that Keeley's last ultrasound was absolutely perfect. All parts were growing right on schedule including her tummy! So now we just let her grow fat and round 'till its show time. Well, hopefully not too fat and round!

Sick

2008-09-10T16:32:00.000-07:00

Today is not a good day. I have a cold, I have an infection of a hair folicule that is causing my lymph nodes to swell and its really painful, my back hurts, and I am tired because the pain from the lymph nodes wouldn't let me sleep. I have an appointment tomorrow so hopefully we can get it cleared up and I can start feeling better!

Just an update!

2008-09-06T16:47:00.001-07:00

So I know I haven't posted anything lately, mostly because I really don't have much to say. Everything is going well for me, Cris , and Keeley. She just keeps growing and kicking. I am sooo excited to meet her! So Keeley is good, Cris is good, and work is good. I do ask that you all pray for Cris's cousin, she needs many prayers right now. And pray for Roger as he is just such a teenager. I'll keep you all updated on any new and exciting news.

Me at 28 weeks!

My Reminders!

2008-08-30T11:26:00.000-07:00

"You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.This is the greatest and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself." Matthew 22:37-29

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves." 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

"with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing tolerance for one another in love, being diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace." Ephesians 4:2-3

Staying Strong

2008-08-27T20:52:00.000-07:00

This is the new blog created by my friend Sam. Her husband is being deployed to Iraq and they just got married. Keep them in your thoughts and prayers!

Staying Strong

More for Sam!

2008-08-25T22:03:00.000-07:00

The Soldier's Spouse Creed

I am in love with a United States Soldier.

I will support him in his defense of the

Constitution of the United States of America.

And I will understand that he must obey

the orders of those appointed over him.

I represent the true backbone

and fighting spirit of the Army.

And for those who have served before me

I salute you with all the strength

and loyalty my heart can muster.

I proudly stand by the one I love

with Honor, Courage and Commitment.

I am committed to support my soldier

and the United States Army.

New Family Addition!!

2008-08-22T22:31:00.000-07:00

Welcome to the family!!!

From Chicken Soup for the Expectant Mother's Soul

2008-08-20T21:41:00.000-07:00

Baby's Choice

Did you ever think, dear Mother,
As the seeds of me you sowed,
As you breathed new life inside of me
And slowly watched me grow,
In all your dreams about me
When you planned me out so well,
When you couldn't wait to have me there
Inside your heart to dwell,

Did you ever think that maybe,
I was planning for you, too,
And choosing for my very own
A mother just like you?
A mother who smelled sweet and who
had hands so creamy white,
A tender, loving creature
Who would soothe me in the night?

Did you ever think in all those days
While you were coming due,
That as you planned a life for me
I sought a life with you?
And now as I lay in your arms,
I wonder if you knew
While you were busy making me,
I was choosing you!

~ Colleen M. Story ~

I pray I can be the mommy she thinks I am!

For Sam

2008-08-20T06:14:00.000-07:00

Deployment Prayer

Dear Lord:Give me the strength to say goodbye.

Hold back the tear in my eye.

Cure my insomnia so that I may sleep alone.

Give me a reason to awake when I’ve none.

Dear Lord:Please help me pace myself.

Allow me to turn to you for help, And please let me be strong for him,

Even if I’ve reached the brim.

Dear Lord:Please make time go fast.

I don’t know how long I can last.

This is the hardest time of my life, But this is my job: the soldier’s wife.

Dear Lord:Let them all stay strong.

Give them the will to go on, And Lord, Please bring back all our men.

In the name of our country. Amen.

~By Leanne Thomas~

An Update

2008-08-18T18:11:00.000-07:00

I know its been a while since my last post so I just wanted to update you all on how things are going. The baby is doing great, I feel her kicking all the time. I just went in for my latest OB checkup. My uterus is measuring right on schedule and the heart beat was a healthy 137 BPM. I had my glucose test on Saturday ::yuck:: and the results came back normal. The other blood test however is showing that I am anemic so I have to start taking Iron supplements. This really didn't surprise me since I have problems with it if I give blood. So my already slow digestion is just about to get slower :( Anyways, I am feeling fine most of the time. I have painless contractions everyday, but nothing at regular intervals. I am getting bigger and bigger everyday, although I am holding steady at 155. That's only 15 lbs off my pre preggo weight. We are almost there on the name, we are just trying it out to make sure we like it and it fits for her. What so you think? Keeley Elizabeth Murry. I just love Elizabeth but Cris only likes it for a middle name and Keeley is Irish/Gaelic for beautiful which I just love. So maybe it'll be the one!
Moving on, work is going great, I really love my job. It is so great to work with women who are in the same shoes I am! Cris is good, working hard. My brother Steven is contemplating joining the Navy. I really hope he does, he so needs the discipline in his life. His fiance is doing good, they baby continues to grow beautifully. Keep them in your prayers. Cris' cousin Rachel is dilated to 1 cm but still has a good 3 weeks to go. Please also keep them in your prayers as Rachel has gestational diabetes (which she is controlling beautifully with diet) and her husband suffers from PTSD. Roger is doing good, he is 16 now about to get his licence and already has his own truck. YIKES! Pray for him also as he wants to move back in with his mom. Pray for me as I struggle to be close with Cris' family, my brother, and his fiance.

Love is patient; love is kind.

Love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude.

It does not insist on its own way:

it is not irritable or resentful;

it does not rejoice in wrong doing, but rejoices in truth.

Love bears all things, believes all things,

hopes all things, endures all things.

And now faith, hope, and love abide, and the greatest of these is love.

Corinthians 13

New Job!

2008-08-04T18:19:00.000-07:00

Ok, I know this has been a long time coming...a whole 2 weeks! So on July 21st I started at Madigan Army Medical Center as a CNA in the OB/GYN Clinic. I just love my job! I pretty much just check people in, take their vitals, show them to there rooms, get the supplies ready, assist the Dr., and clean their room. Sometimes it can get busy and there are difficult moments when women are in pain (due to contractions, miscarriages, or the procedures), but there is no heavy lifting involved. It is amazing to me how God has prepared my heart to be in this position through my work with CareNet and being there for my friends during their own difficult moments, so that I may have the compassion that will really make the difference to the women I work with. Some of them have no friends or family around to support them, and often their only contact outside the home is when they go to the Dr. I pray that I will be a light and a comfort to all those around me!

Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Colossians 3:12

Ultrasound

2008-07-20T08:40:00.000-07:00

So I got the results of my 21 week ultrasound, and everything looked great except that she has a small stomach. This could be nothing more than she had a growth spurt and the stomach hadn't caught up to it at that moment. So I will have another ultrasound at about 28 weeks to see how things are going. Other than that she is doing great. I feel her kicking all the time, can feel her through my clothes, and even see her move my belly. I can already tell when she has the hiccups. I am not so worried as long as I can feel her. In fact I feel her kicking now!

Home again!

2008-07-18T19:59:00.000-07:00

Well here I am, home at last. I had a great time at Apryl's. I totally forgot what true humidity feels like. It hit me when I hit Washington D.C. Had me wishing I had thought to put my inhaler in my carry-on. But I put it in my purse first thing in Virginia! The first two days we just sorta hung out around the house and played games. Then we ventured out into the heat and humidity. We went to the Zoo, and we had an absolute blast! It was soo hot we had to drench ourselves in water every fountain we came to. It was great. The next day we went to the Aquarium and then to Virginia Beach. The aquarium was great, even lil Christian was watching the fish! And it was air conditioned!! After it closed we went down the road to the beach. We went late in the afternoon so it wasn't too hot! We all had a blast in the water although we couldn't do any real swimming because of strong rip tides. But we had a fun anyways! The next day we went to church with Apryl and Tom. It was a decent biblical sermon, accompanied with a lot of prayer and music. However the music was way too loud and I had a hard time keeping up. I don't think Ryan can even play his guitar that fast. I am defiantly grateful for Valley's more traditional style. The people were all very nice and friendly, in fact while we were there they brought Apryl and Tom meals and have been for about 6 weeks. It was good to see they found a good church to go to. We played more games that night, in fact, a game of Scatagories is what prompted me to write my last blog. So we had this category that asked for words with double letters. So I put Aaron (A being our letter). Apryl and Emily both voted that I was wrong (which is how a dispute is settled according to the rules...I think they were just jealous because I was winning). They both thought that a name is not a word. Knowing I was right I had to prove to them that a name is indeed a word. Now I am not so good at grammar but I at least know what a word is. So I got on the Internet and looked up the word word on dictionary.com. It said:
A unit of language, consisting of one or more spoken sounds or their written representation, that functions as a principal carrier of meaning. Words are composed of one or more morphemes and are either the smallest units susceptible of independent use or consist of two or three such units combined under certain linking conditions. Words are usually separated by spaces in writing, and are distinguished phonologically, as by accent, in many languages. Ok a little confusing! So I looked up the definition of name, and it said: A word or a combination of words by which a person, place, or thing, a body or class, or any object of thought is designated, called, or known. Eureka! There is nothing like the sweet taste of victory! A name is a word! Even though Apryl is still sticking to her guns that a word is not a name and a name is not a word :P Anyways, the rest of the time we spent resting and shopping. I got some of the cutest baby things on clearance and Apryl bought a onsie that said " I love my Auntie". So very cute! Wednesday I had to fly back home. It was really hard to leave after missing her so much for such a long time and having such a great time there, but I was missing Cris and knew I had to go home. My flight was pretty uneventful, with the exception that I had a one hour delay in new york and the lady that checked me in in Virginia only sent my luggage to Denver, but they delivered it yesterday so no big deal. I did get to see the Statue of Liberty for the first time from my air plane, that was pretty cool. I am glad to be home now and sleeping in my own bed!

For those of you who want to see pics, Apryl has some up on her blog and on her myspace!

I need your opinion!

2008-07-10T21:53:00.000-07:00

So I am having a little "trouble" with whether or not a name is a word or not. There is a story that goes along with it, but I will tell you all about after I get some answers! So let me know what you either know or think!!

Sugar and Spice and Everything Nice!

2008-07-07T10:58:00.000-07:00

I am so excited to be having a little girl. I got out all the things my grandma gave me that was hers or my moms. It all very cute and very girly! I am so excited to put my daughter in them. Oh, "my daughter"! That just make my heart flutter!! Anyways, all the things are all over 50 years old so I will probably put them on her, take a pic, and then I want to put them in shadow frames and use them as decorations in her room! I am so blessed to have such great family heirlooms to give to her!

On to other things. I am going to Apryl's tomorrow! I am so excited! I miss her so much! Its going to be a great time. Our friend Emily will be there too! Its going to be great! I can't wait for all the great things we'll do, the shopping, and getting to hold lil Christian for the first time! Its going to be great! Thank God for wonderful friends!

So if I don't post something, you'll all know what I am up too!

Also I need to give a special shout out to my BFF Mollie for being so gracious about me visiting Apryl instead of her. I LOVE YOU MOLLIE! Your next!

Amazing Grace in Action!

2008-07-06T19:41:00.000-07:00

These last few weeks have been especially hard for a close friend of mine who recently had a miscarriage. I myself have been greatly sorrowed by her loss as I am pregnant with my first child. Over the last few weeks I have really seen God work in her and her husbands life. As a counselor at Carenet Pregnancy Centers of Pierce County I have had training in some grief counseling, but have never really had to be personally involved. I have been simply amazed by God's healing grace in their life. And I am reminded of what a wonderful caregiver He is! He has surrounded them with Himself, His word, and His people. I am reminded of a song by Natalie Grant called Held, one of my personal favorites!

Two months is too little.

They let him go.

They had no sudden healing.

To think that providence would

Take a child from his mother while she prays

Is appalling.

Who told us we'd be rescued?

What has changed and why should we be saved from nightmares?

We're asking why this happens

To us who have died to live?

It's unfair.

This is what it means to be held.

How it feels when the sacred is torn from your life

And you survive.

This is what it is to be loved.

And to know that the promise was

When everything fell we'd be held.

This hand is bitterness.

We want to taste it, let the hatred know our sorrow.

The wise hands opens slowly to lilies of the valley and tomorrow.

This is what it means to be held.
How it feels when the sacred is torn from your life
And you survive.
This is what it is to be loved.
And to know that the promise was
When everything fell we'd be held.

If hope is born of suffering.

If this is only the beginning.

Can we not wait for one hour watching for our Savior?

He has truly held them close to Him as He walks them through their pain and sorrow. He is truly Amazing Grace in action!

I love you Ryan and Amy!! Thank you so much for sharing your life with me!!

It's going to be a good month!

2008-07-05T16:13:00.000-07:00

I have determined that July is going to be a good month. I no longer work at a nursing home...yay! And because I am not working right now I got to spend some quality time with my wonderful friends Amy, Becky, and Mandi. Yay! Cris and I just found out that we are having a girl!! *I really wanted a girl* Double yay!! The 4th was great, we had a great time with our church family and then we went to Cris' co-workers for fireworks. We had a great time and met some really neat people. Not to mention, being thanked for our service to this country by total strangers felt really good! Now I get to spend more time with friends *HAPPY BIRTHDAY AMY* and I get to visit my BFF Apryl in Virginia for a whole week, holding her new baby boy in my arms! After that I have four more days to myself until I start my wonderful new job. I will be working at the Madigan Army Hospital OB/GYN Clinic. It will be Mon-Fri, 8 to 5, paid holidays, paid vacation, and paid maternity leave! And I will be making more money! So, yes, July is going to be a GREAT month!!!

Here by popular demand!

2008-07-04T16:41:00.000-07:00

Since so many friends are either abondoning myspace or have never had one, I have been asked to start a blog. I must warn you all that I have never been very good at this sort of thing. In fact I have made several attempts at having one, all of which have failed...miserably! Another disclaimer I must make to all of you is that I will never be grammatically correct and I will most likely jump from one subject to another without rhyme or reason! But if you are willing to hang in there with me, I am going to give this a try!

So welcome to my blog! Wish me luck!